Every website has a story, and my story was of a boy growing up with a father who was present physically but emotionally absent. I felt that I was obviously doing something wrong, or maybe I wasn't 'enough'. Whatever feelings were going on, I also found life bemusing, painful, sometimes torturous and on some rare occasions beautiful. But I had a 'hole in the soul' and I tried filling up with extrernal sources such as food, validation, drugs, alcohol or love. I would sometimes ask myself and the world 'What's the point?' I often considered suicide.
Today I find that most days are enriching, there is a constant feeling of contentment and I have a relationship with my father today. One I would never have had if I had kept going on the course I was. I feel blessed in that I get to help others free themselves of their pain and join me in a life that provides growth, opportunities and intimacy.
If you feel that you would like to confront your worries, anxieties and problems, then conatct me to find out how we can start you on your journey.
​This is for you if…
You recognise yourself in any of these:
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Emotionally:
You feel unchosen, “second best”, or like you’re always on the outside looking in. -
Relationally:
You’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people, or you over-give to keep love. -
Internally:
You’re successful on the surface, but inside you feel like an imposter or a burden. -
Spiritually:
You feel unanchored, unclaimed, or unsure where you truly belong. -
In your body:
You carry a low-level tension, waiting for rejection, disappointment, or abandonment.
If you’ve ever thought, “I should be over this by now”—this work is for you.